I’m an occasional overthinker and it’s impossible not to fall into the trap of otherthinking as a stepmom. Nothing is as simple as it is in a first family. Everything is connected and has a past. Kids reference memories as “before the divorce” and sometimes hearing your partner’s text tone go off (Is it the ex? What does she want now?) has all the inertia to propel a stepmom full-speed into ... Read the Post
8 of the Most Common Stepmom Struggles
In my early stepmom days, I struggled alone and in silence for the longest time. I was ashamed that I was unable to navigate this role with grace, gratitude, and happiness. The reality is, I was not alone in these challenges, and neither are you. Stepmom struggles are common as you learn how to navigate this new role in a blended family.An important part of my mission at Stepmomming is to ... Read the Post
Help! I Need to Find the Right Stepmom Coach!
Can you navigate the stepmom role and find your footing on your own? Of course you can! But if you're looking for a faster, more direct, easier way to master the stepmom role and find peace in your stepfamily, then it may be time to find a stepmom coach to help.Before you sign up with the first coach you find, let's discuss three things to consider to help you identify the right coach for ... Read the Post
What I Learned During a Global Pandemic as a Stepmom
I truly believe that we do the most growing when we are put in difficult and uncomfortable situations. This is why stepmomming has such a profound effect on who I am as a person outside of my role as a stepmom. 2020 was definitely a struggle, but I like to focus on the growth and lessons that have been thrown at me. In an attempt to hang on to them into the new year, I want to share them with ... Read the Post
Toxic Advice for Stepmoms
When I first met my husband, I had no clue what I was getting into, but I knew it was way more complicated than a relationship where kids were not involved.Growing up, I was always resourceful and a go-getter. I was confident that with enough work and energy, I’d learn the ropes and be on my way to being the "perfect stepmom" in no time.I’m sure you can imagine how that turned out for ... Read the Post
21 Things to Stop Worrying About in 2021
Stepmomming ain't easy. Can I get an amen? This life is tough stuff. But I've found that it's exponentially MORE difficult if you don't have the right frame of mind. When you can look past some of the situations that aren't deserving of your attention, you'll save yourself peace of mind and happiness. Wouldn't it be a dream come true if you found true peace in your stepmom role in 2021? If you're ... Read the Post