Image

It’s not who you are. It’s what you do.

Image

hey, stepmama!

I’m so glad you’re here.

Image

coaching

GET SUPPORT

Image

weekly emails

JOIN THE CLUB

Image

shop

STEPMOM RESOURCES

Welcome

I’m Kristen!

I’m a Certified Stepparent Coach passionate about helping stepmoms find peace while navigating this complex role. My husband, 10-year-old stepdaughter, and I live in northern Dallas with our two talkative cats, Chalupa and Zoey, and Husky/Malamute mix, Nova. I am SO happy you’re here!

Image

STEPMOM SUPPORT COACHING

PERSONALIZED ADVICe

It’s true no two stepfamilies are alike, and there’s no one-size-fits-all approach. Let’s discuss strategies for your unique family dynamics.

THOUGHTFUL INSIGHTS

Learn from my mistakes, my wins, and my research. I will challenge you, push you, and help you grow. Together, we’ll propel you forward toward peace.

ACTIONABLE TOOLS

You will walk away from our session feeling empowered to tackle your struggles head-on and have the tools you need to inspire lasting change.

Join Over 20,000 Stepmoms!

Subscribe and receive weekly encouragement, insider news, and fresh content straight to your inbox!

Here’s What Our Clients are Saying:

Latest Posts

Check Out All Our Posts Here!

What No One Tells You About Becoming a Stepmom

What No One Tells You About Becoming a Stepmom

By
ByKristen SkilesMar 7, 20235 min read

I was a child of divorce at two years old and grew up with different stepparents throughout the years. So…

When You Feel Jealous of the Ex and Their Life Before You

When You Feel Jealous of the Ex and Their Life Before You

By
ByKristen SkilesFeb 7, 20234 min read

It felt like my then-boyfriend (now-husband) lived an entire life before he met me. He had joined the military, married,…

Why You Shouldn’t Plan Your Life Around a Custody Schedule

Why You Shouldn’t Plan Your Life Around a Custody Schedule

By
ByKristen SkilesJan 10, 20235 min read

I used to let the custody schedule dictate our lives. I would decline invitations to adult get-togethers that fell on…

23 Things to Stop Worrying About in 2023

23 Things to Stop Worrying About in 2023

By
ByKristen SkilesDec 19, 202212 min read

Stepmomming ain’t easy. Can I get an amen? This life is tough stuff. But I’ve found that it’s exponentially MORE…

8 Must-Listen Podcasts for Stepmoms

8 Must-Listen Podcasts for Stepmoms

By
ByKristen SkilesDec 13, 20224 min read

It’s no secret that podcasts are really popular right now, but have you tried searching for podcasts for stepmoms?! There…

Having an Ours Baby Changed My Stepmom Heart

Having an Ours Baby Changed My Stepmom Heart

By
ByKristen SkilesNov 15, 20225 min read

This blog post was written by an anonymous stepmom who shares her realization of how having an ours baby changed…

Load More

Latest Podcasts

Check Out All Our Podcasts Here!

EP 17: 4 Ways You’re Inadvertently Giving Away Control as a Stepmom

EP 17: 4 Ways You’re Inadvertently Giving Away Control as a Stepmom

By
ByKristen SkilesMar 21, 20231 min read

Hi, stepmom! I want to talk about CONTROL! As stepmoms, we feel like we don’t have any,…

EP 16: Stepmom Infertility, Salt in the Wound

EP 16: Stepmom Infertility, Salt in the Wound

By
ByKristen SkilesMar 14, 20231 min read

Stepmom infertility is like salt in the wound. Raising another woman’s child while struggling to have your…

EP 15: Why the Ex Doesn’t Like You (When You Did Nothing Wrong)

EP 15: Why the Ex Doesn’t Like You (When You Did Nothing Wrong)

By
ByKristen SkilesMar 7, 20231 min read

Hi, stepmom! One of the BIGGEST stressors that many stepmoms face in their stepfamilies is their partner’s…

EP 14: Full-Time Stepmomming with Joslynn Flowers

EP 14: Full-Time Stepmomming with Joslynn Flowers

By
ByKristen SkilesFeb 28, 20232 min read

Stepmom, you’re in for a treat, today! I’m joined by Joslynn Flowers of The Daily Stepmom, and…

EP 13: “Stepsmothering” and Feeling Jealous of your Stepkids with Beth McDonough

EP 13: “Stepsmothering” and Feeling Jealous of your Stepkids with Beth McDonough

By
ByKristen SkilesFeb 21, 20232 min read

Hey, stepmom! Today, we have a special guest, my friend Beth McDonough of The Inclusive Stepmom! We…

EP 12: The Reason Stepparenting is So Challenging

EP 12: The Reason Stepparenting is So Challenging

By
ByKristen SkilesFeb 14, 20231 min read

Hey, stepmom! If you’ve been struggling in your role, you’re definitely not alone. Stepmomming isn’t challenging because…

Load More