Hi, I’m Kait, and I’m a recovering doormat.I can’t tell you how many times I’ve agreed to something, only to have a private emotional breakdown about it later.I wish I could say I’ve never lied about how late I’m working in order to have a “good enough” excuse for not accommodating a last-second need from my stepchild’s mom. I try not to think about all the times I’ve snapped and dumped ... Read the Post
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The Successful Stepmom’s Toolbelt
Have you ever wished that a user manual came with the stepmom role? That a fairy god(step)mother would tell you how to do this right, without screwing up your marriage or the kids? I know I have! And often! And that's exactly why I teamed up with some of the very best stepparenting and co-parenting teachers out there to bring you this incredible, inclusive bundle of resources to guide you to your ... Read the Post
Stepmom Overstepping Boundaries? 5 Legitimate Reasons Why.
As if sharing your daughter with your ex isn't hard enough... Add in the drama of sharing her with a stepmom who doesn't know her place? Excruciating. If you're dealing with a stepmom overstepping boundaries, it's possible there's a completely legitimate (albeit, misguided) reason why!When I first got involved in my now-stepdaughter's life, I was on a mission. A mission to be the perfect ... Read the Post
10 Tips for Meeting the Ex-Wife the First Time
I vividly remember the pounding in my chest, lump in my throat, and mind racing with insecurities when I was meeting the ex-wife the first time.We were headed to pick up Krista, my husband/then-boyfriend's daughter, across town at her mom's boyfriend's martial arts competition, and after saying "Hello" to me, his ex-wife didn't say another word or even look in my direction again.Meeting ... Read the Post
So, Your Child Acts Differently With One Parent?
When a child acts differently with one parent than the other, especially in blended families when the child has two homes, it can leave you feeling confused and frustrated.I will never forget the day I took a road trip with my two stepdaughters and their mom to an amusement park.I should lead with the fact that it was an awesome day. No juicy “baby mama drama” in this story, folks! But ... Read the Post