I vividly remember my first Mother's Day as a stepmom. I felt left-out, unappreciated, and disappointed. It seemed entirely unfair that I would help to raise my stepdaughter and wouldn't receive recognition for that contribution from so many in my life. I could perform many of the same tasks as a "real mom," but still, Mother's Day was reserved for them instead of me. Even though I can ... Read the Post
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Everything You Need to Know about Mini Wife Syndrome
Have you ever felt like an outsider in your stepfamily? This is fairly common, especially when you’re just starting to adapt and learn where you fit in with your new family. These feelings can be exacerbated when the stepchild acts as if he or she is the mom (or dad, take note, this can happen no matter the gender of the children or parents) of the family, a predicament known as Mini Wife ... Read the Post
Disneyland Dad: Is it Really that Bad?
I grew up with a Disneyland Dad and lived to tell the tale. Dad’s weekends were full of Happy Meals, swimming at the pool, and learning how to ride a bike. We played together and enjoyed our time, not worried about rules, bedtime, or balanced nutrition. Mom’s house, on the other hand, was far stricter. There were chores, rules, bedtime, screen time restrictions, and school expectations. ... Read the Post
The Reason Stepparenting is So Challenging
Stepparenting: it's just like parenting except it's a bajillion times harder, you receive a fraction of the support, and you're not the one calling most of the shots. When I first became a stepmom, I imagined what my role would look like: my husband and I would be co-decision makers of our home, my stepdaughter and I would immediately hit it off, her mom would recognize my good intentions and ... Read the Post
When your Stepchild’s Mom Pretends you Don’t Exist
It goes without saying that every stepmom has a vastly different relationship with the mother of her stepchildren than the next stepmom. Before my life now, I was in a different relationship that first introduced me to the dynamics of stepmotherhood. While that relationship ultimately failed, I developed a very strong bond with the little boy and knew I wanted to be a mom. His mother was kind, ... Read the Post
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